so i was watching a video about 'Coming out from your closet : Ash Becjkan at TEDxBoulder'.
what i took away from this was:

when coming out from the closet;
actually, in any situation where i ever were to have a serious 'talk' with anyone, i will:

#1: Be Authentic
be myself. it's not a battle. i bleed too.

#2: Be direct.
just fucking say it. don't give them false hope. don't drag it.

3#: Be Unapologetic
i'm speaking my truth. why should i be 'sorry' when i'm being honest?
i will not apologize for who i am. if ever, i will only apologize for what i have had done.