this.

if you don't want to read the whole thing, here's the paragraph you should think about:

After three hours of not speaking to me, it became clear what was really bothering her when she told me emphatically: “You know, Charles, it’s amazing. I don’t care about your ‘date.’ And for all I care, you could have slept with her. But tell me this: When was the last time you took time out of your day and took me to lunch for no reason?”

the lack of passion. the lack of effort, you should have been prepared to invest for a successful relationship which demands past the dating phase. Don't ever be complacent again please.

it may be a hypocrisy, it may be an excuse. i may be selfish. i may be a liar. i may be a coward. i made a mistake. but what do you know? this is my reason.